This lecture showed that our little being bad gang are quite lucky after all. We were asked how many of us had been cheated on and a suprisingly low number of people came forward. Perhaps there was some dishonesty flying around, or maybe the majority of the group were the ones who did the dirty on their partners. Personally I'd say more people than those who admitted being cheated on would have been victims to it. It seems understandable to not want to volunteer that information to a group of virtual strangers. Being cheated on I imagine would feel extremely humiliating and would make the most assured person feel very incapable as a human and partner. An event that made you feel that bad would not be something you would want to remember and revisit readily, especially in front of people you barely know.To me, the unfortunate people that have been cheated on at some point should not feel bad about themselves. This is because in most cases of infidelity the person cheating is doing so because they are infact the inadequate party. They do not have the honesty or integrity to admit to their partners that something is not working in the relationship. Instead of being the bigger person and ending the relationship with a little dignitty, they stray so that the other party has a reason to break up with them. The last and desperate act of terrible person.
Even one of the greatest of our time http://news.independent.co.uk/world/science_technology/article1171410.ece
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